I HAVE VERY DARK SKIN AND IM VERY INSECURE, please help?

Im a 21 year old indian male. My skin colour is very dark (chocolate brown). I feel insecure to go out with a shorts and t shirt because I feel people think my skin colour is disgusting.





does anybody else feel like this? What can I do?
I HAVE VERY DARK SKIN AND IM VERY INSECURE, please help?
dont care what ppl think who cares you do you


neither one of them is going to help you pay bills


just sit adn judge like idiots
I HAVE VERY DARK SKIN AND IM VERY INSECURE, please help?
aww don't beat yourself about it! love yourself. god made you that way!
Reply:I'm pretty dark too, but believe it or not bro, there are girls out there that just MELT for dark skin. Trust me.
Reply:How odd, not many people care what color you're skin is, and the ones that do, they don't matter.. Go out, have a great time and enjoy yourself, dark skin and all!
Reply:who cares about your skin color. i think people wouldn't care about it because there are a lot of people with very dark skin like yours.
Reply:come on man ...you have to live in that skin for life .... cant be insecure about your color ... you will make your self nuts doing that crazy sht..... you are who u are ... people dont like it ... f.... em......
Reply:No thats sooo silly. Aint it funny white people including myself are always risking skin cancer trying to get a tan and staining up the sheets orange when using fake tan then you got darker skin people sittin in the shade and using skin bleaching products to lighten it............ why can we never be happy with what we got????!!!!!!!!
Reply:i think your skin color is very sexy, don't worry
Reply:You should be proud of your skin color, i'm pale and i don't like it.


but if you have naturally dark skin you should flaunt it.


i mean alot of people would kill to be tanned and not white and pale.





you should wear shorts and a t-shirt out, be proud!
Reply:You should be flattered! you have a wonderful color of skin!





There is this guy in my class named Imreet. He has the same color of skin as you I imagine. Ohhhh. Hes so sexy.





Don't be afraid to show off where you come from! Besides you can't change it can you? So learn to love yourself.
Reply:You shouldn't worry about what other people think.


Most of the time, dark skin is sexy :]
Reply:If anything you are lucky because you don't have to deal the pasty pale skin I have to put up with. Do not care what other people think.Try thinking that it is super hot outside and if you wore winter clothes you would have a heat stroke.
Reply:omg! dont feel so inscure man people are all sorts of diffrent race yeh white black brown mixed raced and from diffrent background dont be ashamed of you skin coulour and dont lishen to what other people say or think about yah always keep ur head up i tink dat your still sexii no matter wot ok remeber always smile and dat the way god made yah appreciate it man dont tink about getting a plastick sergury nahhh xxxoxo ...





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Reply:dude your an Indian what do you expect! I think you watch to much tv in Hollywood. The best thing you can do is make sure you have a soft and healthy skin. It is okey if you are black as long as you look clean and fresh. Then ppl will look at you and sau wow his skin is healthy!!
Reply:I am a white female, very white and prone to getting sun poisoning and sun burn. You should be proud of your heritage and dark skin. Think about how many lighter skinned people bake in the sun or get fake tans because they want their skin to be darker. Do you really want to associate with people who would judge you on your skin color?
Reply:alot of people want to be tan so don't worry about it. you should be proud of who you are.
Reply:all though i am white and do not truly feel your insecurity, i understand what you mean. i am afraid to go in shorts because im not muscly and shorts are not appealing. if anyone gives you that "look" because they are disgusted with your skin colour, ignore them. they are rascists and anyone who really got to know you in stead of judging your colour probably would find that you are a nice guy. if they REALLY bother you, confront them. racsists are genarally wussies, and engaging them will start a small fight, but they are


dependant on their words and when it comes down to it, they will flee.
Reply:You start by loving yourself!You can't be disgusted about anything that pertains to you! You are not disgusting, and your skin color is beautiful. People spend all kind of money going to tanning salons trying to get as beautiful skin as you have naturally.People lay out in the sun and bake themselves, trying to have a deeper tanned look, yours is God given! You stop looking at yourself in a negative way. And you start looking at yourself in a positive way, you are wonderful, your skin tone is


dark and lovely! You start loving you! I mean look in the mirror everyday and say I love to yourself, and tell yourself how handsome and sexy you are! No more talk of bad skin color your skin color is perfect! You are perfect just the way you are!
Reply:Hey hey hey, look!


There are plenty of dark skinned celebrities that everyone loves and idolizes.. but it's not because of their skin! It's the way they carry theirselves. They have confidence! You should try to learn to accept your skin color and love it for what it is. I'm sure it's not as bad as you say it is.


I know how you feel because I have been going to school with caucasians as the majority all my life.. I felt insecure too. And out of place. Don't worry, it will pass. I suggest working on your confidence. When you are confident, it overshadows your imperfections.





And NEVER think your skin color is disgusting. Think of how many people go to tanning salons just to get their skin color like yours. The good thing is that you don't have to. It's beautiful! So love it. :)
Reply:dont worry i love chocolate brown people anyways be happy how god made you and hold your head up high, who cares what other people think =]
Reply:First point, No one around you can make you feel secure! You must understand that there are people who are black pitch black and they just don't care. Dude face the reality, when a niger walks by ppl look at him with awe and sometimes disgust too, but do they care. No. Bottomline stop feeling insecure. Remember what you have others don't.Be thankful that you atleast have a body and face without any deformity coz I have seen people with burnt faces. Do you think ppl with burnt faces don't succeed in life. No Infact they achieve a lot more coz of their confidence. So shut up and praise god for what you have.





There is a story behind this!





They saw a few germans visited the inmates of an indian prison. Seeing the germans an inmate asked the germans why the germans were so white and indians so dark! A little voice from the group of germans told the inmate that God was in the beginning creating and he first created Indians. He loved his first creation so much that he put all the colour on the indians and baked them. When it was the turn of other creatures to be created it seems there was no colour left. This shows how special dark skinned people are! Get it. All that is white is not milk. All that is fair and beautiful is not good. This applies to people too. It doesn't matter if you are dark or fair what matters is how good you are! OMG my post is so long! Remember you are special!
Reply:Don't feel insecure! Think of it this way-there are millions of pale, white people paying rediculous amount of money to go in tanning beds trying to get that dark skin that you already have!





I think it is just a matter of people thinking "the grass is greener on the other side." People with dark skin think their skin is too dark, people with light skin think their skin is too light. The most important thing is to be confident and proud of who you are, because you can never be anyone else.
Reply:David my fore-fathers on my Mothers side were Native American,and two of my Brothers had dark skin and my oldest Brother and I have light skin! I was always sort of jealous because I wanted to be darker,but I am who I am and you are who you are,so put on them shorts and walk proudly! You have low self esteem,as I did because I felt like I was to White,until I decided to be proud of myself and you must do that to,or you'll never be content! Now get out there and smile at the World with pride and most of the World will smile back and for those who don't,that's their loss! Now get going and think P-R-O-U-D- Good-Luck!
Reply:personally, i love dark skin.


there are people who would kill to have skin like you.


i know many of them. =]]





just go out and show the world! don't worry about what other people think. just be you.





good luck!
Reply:i am a dark chocolate brown girl jus like u. and i myt not b indian, but i do look like one! im 14, and ive already learned this lesson! Scr*w all the haters! sum ppl like dark ppl, like i kno a lotta guys like me! just like a lotta girls cood like u! beauty is in the eye of the beholder, my friend
Reply:Deal With It


Thats What Lifes For .


Yu Carnt Mope Around Feeling Sorry 4 Yurself


Move On 8-)


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