Identity crisis!?

I'm having a bit of an identity crisis in my life about how I want to dress and stuff. I'm a gay male, almost 14, and I' kind of stuck between how I want to look, I mean, sometimes, I want a kind of androgynous, edgy look, sort of like this:





http://a583.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/ima...





or this:





http://a758.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/ima...





but sometimes I want to dress like this, more GQ, high fashion, preppy, because, its more common and practical and less dangerous [less likelihood of getting jumped], plus, honestly, i feel like it'll be more appealing to guys:





http://community.livejournal.com/ohnothe...





What should I do, how should I dress?





And please dont say, buy what you want, because then my wardrobe will be all over the place and I'll look like a damn fool.
Identity crisis!?
i would go for the second style
Identity crisis!?
I would definitely go with the GQ look . the other is just too far from normal, you will probably get beat up and teased mercilessly.
Reply:Second style for sure. You can be open with your sexuality and look good, but don't make it the only thing people see about you. The first look is too extreme.
Reply:Honestly? I prefer the second style. However, here's an idea that might help you.





First, grab a coin. Have the 'edgy' look be heads, and the second style be tails. Flip the coin.





Before you read any further, I want you to answer this question. What was the result? And now, dress that way.





Have you done that yet?





Seriously, don't continue reading until you have.





Alright, once you've flipped that coin and made that choice based on the outcome, answer this:





Are you happy with that choice? Is there something nagging at you from the inside saying that the other was better.





I really hope you didn't read that last part until you flipped the coin. It's a psychological thing, really, and you'd ruin it if you kept reading. Basically, make a choice. If there's ANY doubt in your mind, don't hesitate to change it.